"Your body is precious. It is your vehicle for awakening. Treat it with care." Buddah
My body image and perspectives on health are constantly evolving. There is often this interesting interplay of old ideas about the self that are still attached and newer, more healthier ways of being. Sometimes these maladaptive ways of being are easy to shake, sometimes they hold on for months or even years beyond when I am conscious of the fact that they no longer serve me.
It takes a lot of effort to shift fully into new ways of being and healthy habits. It takes time, it takes patience, it takes mistakes, and it takes forgiveness. There are many things we engage in that serve emotional purposes:
overeating, overexercising, abusing drugs, misusing alcohol, being abusive to those we
love, being abusive to ourselves, the list goes on. It can be difficult to delve into the
complicated, emotional issues and baggage that make us tick. It is difficult to be vulnerable. It can be challenging to think you want one thing and find out your want another. We have to acknowledge these things, make effort to understand them, and move
forward when we are ready. Sometimes back lashing into unhealthy ways of being or witnessing the unhealthy habits of others sparks a renewed vigor for self-improvement.
It is so important for us to treat our bodies with kindness, support, and love. Women can be excessively critical of our bodies and fall into the latest, greatest quick fix fad and not focus on health. We often engage in negative self-talk and perfectionism. With celebrities, boob jobs, penis pumps, and advertisement around every corner telling us how to look, what is sexy, and what we "should" be, it is really difficult to not get wrapped up in it. Men are subjected to this hellish objectification too.
Appreciating our own uniqueness is vital to healthy living and enjoying this beautiful gift that is our lives. Deciding what healthy living looks like for your is important. Our physical needs are just as individual as we are. Trying different ways of eating, exercise, spiritual outlets, etc. just move us forward into finding what works. There is no failure, only evolution and awakening.
So remember this quote from the Buddha, and have a wonderful, positive day.